My unspoken rule on deso is to not waste time with tyre kickers. I've spent too many years with people who were pretending. On so many levels. That was frustrating. What I like about deso is the money thing. You quickly see who's pretending and who's not, by where the money goes. That helps. Because then I know who's genuine and who's not. Pretenders don't spend money. They kick tyres. They don't give diamonds mostly hearts. That's my unspoken rule. Only spend time with generous, authentic people who aren't afraid to spend money. Yet, I also understand people have different budgetary constrictions. Anyway, I'm enjoying the interaction with good people on deso. Much more a community feel than any other social media I've been involved with. Still learning heaps. And not sure about a lot of things like; founders reward, creator coins, and the infinite tiny percentages people promote. Confusing. Life is one big experiment, right? Mystery is important. So I try things out and see what happens. See what people like. That's fun.